• miscellaneous

    I Did Something Potentially Stupid…But Potentially Life-Changing

    The title pretty much sums up what’s happening. I don’t know how often I mention it here; if I mention it here at all, but I took a two year break from my education during the pandemic. It’s never bothered me much (read: it bothers me a lot) and a university degree is just a degree, right? So, naturally, I threw myself into my career. Let’s be honest: payday is everyone’s favorite day of the month, right? I never really focused much on my education after I got into the work force. I mean, I do continuously take courses on LinkedIn and Coursera. In fact, my boss has even paid…

  • writing

    On Writing Subtext: What It Is & Why It Matters in Storytelling

    In case you missed it, I just wrapped up my June reading list, and a common denominator in the four great books I read this month was subtext. Seriously, when done right, subtext in writing can be an incredibly powerful tool to make your story seem more alive. If you have no idea what I’m talking about (and that’s totally fine), think of it this way. Have you ever read a story where characters feel very, very realistic? Where their true feelings and motivations just seemed to simmer beneath the surface? Well, that’s subtext.  And if you use it correctly, it can do wonders. So, without wasting any time, let’s…

  • book reviews

    Book Talk: What I Read in June

    Yes, I know. I’m late for this one, effectively breaking my streak but I have good reason. If you’ve read my blog on morally grey characters, you’ll see some shots fired at a certain writer. What can I say? I’ve been trying to write this blog on what I read in June for a few weeks now, but A Simple Favour just makes me so angry. Like, really, really angry. And I’ve read bad books. I read Fifty Shades, and Twilight, and yet those books (and others: think that Mexican mafia and white supremacist romance I won’t dignify by name dropping) were comprehensible. The plot made sense. This book was…

  • writing

    On Writing Morally Grey Characters (That Aren’t Just Your Typical Villains or Anti-Heroes)

    For the past couple of weeks, I’ve been talking about writing anti-heroes and villains (if you haven’t checked those blogs out, I highly recommend it). So, this week I thought it would only make sense to talk a bit about morally grey characters. Characters who aren’t evil or rebellious on purpose—but still make you uneasy. Or at the very least, question if they’re making the right decision, or make you ask yourself: would I have done anything different? Think Victoria Neuman from The Boys, or Zuko during the Ba Sing Se arc in Avatar: The Last Airbender. We’re talking about characters who have the potential to be right, do the…

  • writing

    On Writing Villains: How to Write Complex, Compelling Antagonists

    Last week, I wrote a blog on writing anti-heroes, so naturally, this week’s blog had to be on writing villains. Villains are interesting, to say the least. I personally like them, especially if they’re written well, or played by Benedict Cumberbatch.  Side Note: Did you SEE him in Star Trek? It’s been over a decade and god, he was good. But my affinity to Benedict Cumberbatch aside, villains can be fun to write—if you write them correctly. I guess the real challenge with writing villains is just how easy it is to make them cartoony. And this isn’t an uncommon problem or anything. Sometimes, I have a really good hero…

  • writing

    On Writing Anti-Heroes Readers Love (and Hate)

    I don’t know about you, but I do love myself a nicely written anti-hero. Seriously. I spent my teens fangirling over Loki and Sherlock. Yes, I am that person. No, I didn’t end up developing  a weirdly parasocial relationship with Tom Hiddleston or Benedict Cumberbatch.  I kind of grew out of it. But it did help me when I started dating in college. Of course, don’t tell that to my mother. As far as she’s concerned, I spent every waking hour pouring over my mechanical engineering coursework, and the only reason I didn’t pick up the phone that one week in May in 2019 is because I was studying for…

  • blogging

    How to Choose the Right Affiliates for Your Blog

    Affiliate marketing has been called many things—some flattering, some…less so. At its best, it’s simply a way to share tools and products you genuinely believe in, and earn something in return. Choosing the right affiliates isn’t about chasing the highest commission or slapping banners on every available inch of your site. It’s about finding partnerships that feel like an extension of your work, rather than a jarring detour. If you’re considering adding—or refining—affiliate income streams, here are a few principles worth considering. Not rules, just guideposts that can help you avoid regret later. Understand What Your Readers Actually Want If you’ve been blogging for more than five minutes, you know…

  • writing

    On Writing Unforgettable First Impressions: Your Guide to Introducing Characters

    Let’s be honest, characters are the beating heart of any story. In fact, writers spend a lot of hours developing their personalities, their motivations, their desires and so on. And that’s great; you should probably know what your characters’ roles will be in your story. But once you’ve figured that out, the crucial next step is to introduce your characters in a way that captivates your audience. From the very first encounter. It doesn’t have to be fantastical. It just needs to be right. Because here’s the thing: just as in real life, first impressions are everything in fiction.  A strong character introduction will not only hook readers but also…

  • book reviews

    Book Talk: What I Read in May

    Okay, it’s the first day of the new month, and somehow, I’m actually posting on time. Shocking, I know. Honestly, the only reason I ever keep up with these reviews is because I write them right after finishing a book—while my feelings (good or bad) are still fresh and my random annotations actually make sense. Honestly, I’m not even sure what I’m saying right now. This is my fourth cup of coffee and I’m bulk-writing a few posts to have something ready for the next few weeks. Why? You’ll find out soon. There might be some changes happening on this blog over the summer, so let me know what you…

  • productivity

    Study Tips for Finals: A Productivity Guide That Actually Works

    Not sure I’ve mentioned it here before, but my youngest is graduating in July. And by youngest, I mean my youngest sister. Seriously. For some reason whenever I say that, people assume I’m talking about my children. Do I look old enough to have children?  I can’t be trusted with a pet goldfish at this point in my life — and children? I don’t think so. Anyway, my sister’s finals start on June 10th. We have holidays here in Turkey from the fifth, so there’s a bit of a delay. Her graduation’s in July, but she has to pass her courses first. So naturally, she’s been scouring the internet for…